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Wednesday, July 30, 2014

How Do You Make Connections?

How do you make connections? Sometimes it is so easy other times we are reluctant to try. Does it get easier with our time spent online? It takes time to have a true trusting relationship. Some of us have gotten burnt by people we thought we could trust and it takes time to learn how to trust again.

My friend said if the divorce goes to fruition that she would not trust again. I told her that she has been through a very tough life and if she finds someone that will treat her right it will make up for all the trials she has been in. This was not just mental it was physical pain brought on. I mentioned that the cycle continues and she should have aborted a bad situation a long time ago. Needless to say I was not allowed to speak to her because she started to stand up for herself.

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When you have people on your list then let them start seeing all the sides of your personality. Open up some of your personal experiences and they will relate to you in many ways that they could not before. We are all intricate, wonderful people and there is more things good about us than bad so it is okay to share.

I have some people that have become good friends and never met them in person. Then there is the ones that only contact me when they want something. If they take time to reach out it is still a good thing.

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